Has he pulled away from you?

Do you sit home wondering why he hasn't called? Do you hear from him less and less every day? Are you tired of sitting home worrying about where he is?

If you answered yes to any of the above, listen carefully....let go. I'm sure the next thing you'll say is, "it's complicated." But really, once you do it...you'll be free. Free of all the insecurities you're feeling right now. It's true that you may be lonely for a bit...but that will go away eventually. As long as you can accept that there will be pain, and probably some crying, you'll make it. Allow yourself to feel those emotions, allow yourself time to be sad, but always carry the thought that it will run it's course and you'll be a healthier, happier, and more enjoyable person at the end of it. Speak to yourself through the process, acknowledge it and celebrate when you reach a new stage of coping. However, be VERY, VERY careful...I can almost guarantee that there will be ONE pivitol moment that will determine the outcome. There will be the temptation of going back to him. Soon he will see how strong and determined you've become and he will magically pop back into your life. It's a natural reaction...by moving on and refocusing your attention elsewhere, you have become a challenge to him, and we all know men love a challenge. Stay strong, and walk on. It's all a game that you know too well. I promise you, if you keep your head high, and focus on getting 'better,' you will look back and wonder why you ever fell for that person in the first place.